Monday, June 1, 2009

Minor fracas

Rowena: So far we've had nothing but great experiences in our interactions with Koreans. They have been very friendly and helpful... up until yesterday lol. We were on a bus returning from Anseong to Chungju. Chris and I were having a chat with one of our foreign friends, and I felt a kick on the back of my chair. I didn't think anything of it, maybe someone was just crossing their legs over. Then it happened again, and our friend asked me if my chair was being kicked, and I said yes, thinking that this person behind must be fidgety. Then our friend got up from his seat and was standing in the aisle having a chat to our friends who were further up the bus. Then I felt three hard kicks behind my chair and I turned around thinking wtf is going on?? The person who had been kicking my chair was an elderly man yelling at me and kicking my chair while pointing to my friend standing in the aisle. He wasn't happy that my friend was having a friendly chat on the bus, but I don't think kicking my chair and shouting at me was the most appropriate way with dealing with his 'obviously distressing situation'. Now why was he kicking my chair? Probably because like everyone else, he thought I was Korean, and expected me to tell my friend to sit down. Now I'm all for respecting the elderly, but it goes both ways... So to anyone planning to travel on a bus in Korea with an elderly person, be weary, they're violent*!

*Eldery Koreans are not violent (only the man mentioned in this post)

5 comments:

  1. I know. Koreans are generally nice people. Thanks for a great post. Hey, these Hawaii Statehood Apparel might interest some of your Korean friends.

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  2. Huh? Is this some kind of weird advertisement?

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  3. Chris: Charles, she meant "wary" not "weary" ...but I assume you know that and that you're just being a tool.

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  4. I've had similar issues on public transport- not as intense as kicking, but being shouted at. It seems that the issue is that my friends and I are speaking in English.... apparently that's offensive to many elderly korean folk :/

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